STOP THERE!!

 Have you often felt like saying STOP!! STOP THERE!! The chaos of so many thoughts juggling in your head whenever another person judges you. Judging has never been fair, as we only understand what we see. There is always a second side to each story. Stories unfold as per our perspectives; the more balanced we are, the more honest our thought process becomes.

 But have you seen people unfolding your stories as per their mindset? So many faces with so many descriptions. We often end up being judged, misjudged or indifferently judged. Choosing easy way out is maintaining peace instead of being constantly told what to do and what not to do!! 

Do you really think we need to be advised about things we have been fighting for all our lives? I guess we actually know what has to be done, but the only thing missing is the spark that ignites the problem and let us be us. For heaven's sake isn't that all we want-doing exactly what we want to do? 

Now comes the situations, where you cannot do what you want to. That's exactly the answer to all judgements and statements people have for you when you are not doing what is expected of you rather what you are supposed to do. 

My question remains why to be judgmental when we are not even in their shoes? Can we tell people to STOP!! Stop because their judgmental advice is not doing any good. Stop because it hurts. And also Stop because there is already a mess in our head.

 Let us breathe and think. Maybe that's all we need at this point in time.

 So, STOP!! STOP THERE!!